Justin Harvey is a 17 year old from Indiana with a love of maps, countries, and especially German culture. As Justin dove into the language in his high school German class, he dreamed of visiting the country he loved. Meanwhile, halfway acround the world in Germany, a young girl named Chantal was eagerly chasing the dream of becoming an exchange student in America. Little did they know that their passions would align, their wishes be granted, and their lives intertwined forever!!
Noelle Harvey, Justin’s mom and Chantal’s host mom, shares that they were a little bit nervous at first about the idea of hosting a girl.
“It’s the idea of having a boy and girl in the house together that at first felt uncomfortable,” she shared. “But our coordinator Dorothee Cooke told us that sometimes it’s better that way, because there isn’t as much pressure to be best friends when you’re hosting someone of the opposite sex. That made sense to us!”
Ultimately, it was Chantal’s video and the many uncanny similarities that made the Harvey family fall in love with her above all the rest of the students they considered. Not only are Chantal and Justin’s birthdays just 5 days apart, they also share many overlapping interests. But perhaps one of the biggest similarities is that they are both “only children.” This means that while they both had a similar family culture growing up, they also both had to face the challenge of acclimating to life with a sibling!
Host mom Noelle feels that their sibling relationship is one of the most special “gains” of their hosting experience, particularly because their relationship as brother/sister is so “normal!”
“They act like brothers and sisters act!” laughed Noelle. “Both of them are only children, so they were able to experience day to day living with all its challenges. They absolutely support one another and definitely have each other’s back – yet at the dinner table they’d be bickering just like brother and sister! I loved it. I grew up in a large family, so I loved to see them experience that too!”
Once the plan was in place for Chantal to come to America, as is to be expected, the nerves set in!
But once she arrived, this first time host family rallied around her like pros. From helping her plug into the school to making her feel welcome at home, the Harvey family quickly found that many small welcoming gestures added up to a big impact for the shy German who had just left everything familiar behind her.
“Before I came to America I was very nervous about the first school day, but it was not bad at all,” remembers Chantal.
“I had a lot of trouble finding my classes at first but my host family walked me through my schedule the day before school started. I don’t think it was very hard for me to adjust in the beginning, because my host family was very understanding and supportive.”
While Chantal was elated to be able to experience life in America, she actually arrived in the States as a very shy and quiet girl.
“She wanted to focus on academics only,” remembers Dorothee, her local coordinator. “I pushed her and the host family completely out of their comfort zone because I told Chantal that she needs to get involved or we’ll have to deal with homesickness in September.”
Heeding Dorothee’s advice, the Harveys helped Chantal join the cross country team, which helped her start to open up. The involvement in sports made a huge difference and the Harveys were able to experience their high school in a different way.
“It is truly amazing how much Chantal has grown,” shares Dorothee. “She is now a somewhat chatty and outgoing, confident young lady. She has gotten out of her comfort zone many many times and it has made her grow… it’s amazing to see the transformation.”
Chantal was also fortunate enough to experience many parts of the country on family trips, but interestingly, it was often the small, simple, “normal” pieces of her experience – like becoming involved in cross country – that made Chantal’s experience so rewarding. Getting to do daily life with a new family in a new school was truly a dream come true for her!
“Even little things that are normal for Americans made me very happy,” remembers Chantal. “I remember the excitement I had before all the cross country races I had, it made me feel like I am part of the school, and my team was always supportive and helped me out.”
Noelle feels her family has benefited in countless ways as well. Their son Justin will get to experience Germany during a 3 week immersion program this summer, and as a family they’ll tour the country and visit Chantal’s family as well. Noelle plans to always stay in touch, because Chantal is now a part of the family!
“It’s better than I expected. About halfway through the year I would call her my host daughter, but now I just call her my daughter,” shares Noelle. Chantal echoed the same sentiment: “I will never forget how important they are to me and we will definitely stay in contact forever, they are part of my family now.”
So, what can a family considering the idea of hosting take away from this story? With a new lifelong family member and many more adventures on the horizon, the pay-off is clear. But what’s the reality of day-to-day life as a host family? How can a family know if this is the right move for them? Noelle feels that anyone who can envision sharing their homes with a student should give it a try.
“If you’re somebody who’s open to exploring new relationships and are excited about sharing what you have and looking at it with new eyes – this is for you!” said Noelle emphatically. “It is like having a new family member – it’s such a joy.”
If you’re ready to learn more about the amazing journey that’s changed the course of countless lives, join us in this mission of student exchange. Check out all the details, peruse current students, or ask for a personal conversation at iE-USA.org

After picking up their host daughter Maria from Spain, they quickly discovered this was a match made in heaven. The Brennans found an eager and engaged student who truly became a part of the family, faster than you can say “Bienvenido!”
While extreme animal-wrestling has never made the cut, the Brennans have enjoyed many experiences with Maria.
Maria, who is just finishing her finals and preparing to return to Spain, agrees.
Maria shares that one of her mottos as an exchange student has been to “always say YES.” This philosophy has led her on many adventures!



y Scofield, my iE interviewer, saying: “The host families never know who they chose. You are like a Überraschungsei [surprise] with two suitcases and they don’t know what’s going to happen.“ I think we all got along pretty good together even though we were 6 persons from 3 countries. But this is also a typical American thing. There are so many different nationalities, and I think half of the students at my school had Mexican roots. But I also met other (exchange) students from Spain, Pu
erto Rico, Australia and many more countries, so I also learned a lot about their cultures!
There are also important events that are celebrated way more than in Germany. For example: Halloween and Thanksgiving. My host mom spent many nights on designing and making my host sister’s minion costume. It was such a fun experience to go from house to house and see the crazy decorations.
One of the first things you probably connect with Texas is a cowboy. A real Texan exchange student has to be a cowboy or cowgirl for at least a day. Here you can see!
This is a long story that starts with hosting a sweet girl from Bavaria for a few weeks, then two great new students the next year, followed by a business trip where I met up with an old friend who just happened to have a sister that was looking for host families.
I guess I never really thought of it as volunteering. I pictured volunteering as doing something I really don’t want to do, like volunteering to clean up after the dog, or to pick up trash in the neighborhood. This is something I WANTED to do. Picking out students who love some of the same things I do. Waiting to hear from them. The first email. The first video call. Waiting for them to arrive. Meeting them for the first time at the airport.
We now have family all over the world, and we are much more aware of what is happening all over. We marvel at how similar our lives are compared to the lives of our families, but we are just as amazed by the differences. 
“Loreto comes to my house every Sunday, she spent Easter with us, I helped her get ready for prom,” shares Maggie. “She’s really like one of the family!”
Maggie still can’t believe how easy it’s been to have an instant connection with a teenager from across the world.
Julie was invited to participate in an abroad student orientation weekend, a travel opportunity offered to select coordinators every spring. The purpose of the weekend is to teach future exchange students how to proactively engage in their new American host community during the upcoming year. It also serves as a tangible reminder of the rules, responsibilities, and conduct required when accepting the privilege of being an exchange student.
“The trip was wonderful!” shares Julie. “Everything was arranged by the iE Spain office. I wasn’t able to extend my stay, but even with the scheduled days, I was able to do some site-seeing. I was even able to meet for an evening with one of my students from last year! Definitely a highlight of the trip!!”
Julie shared that these “real” and honest moments with the students have shaped her perspective as a local coordinator, a professional development opportunity she did not anticipate.
Beyond the formal meetings in the orientation itself, Julie enjoyed connecting with the exchange staff in Spain as well.
Julie was also impressed by the caliber of students present during the 2 day session, which of course makes her work in student exchange feel so much more meaningful!
The Herr Family: A Spanish Role Model
The Jones Family: A Sister for Zada
It’s understandable why a family may pause when looking at volunteering to host an exchange student – after all, inviting someone into your inner life is no small feat! However, Don feels strongly that the gifts his family has received are priceless in comparison.
Though Chris and Sarah have a bustling household with 4 children of their own, they never hesitated to jump into hosting – sometimes 2 students at a time!
Why do groups like band, choir, and theater provide such an inclusive structure for students?
“Jorge is an amazingly talented young musician,” shares Mr. Andy Honse, Jorge’s band director. “When he first came to McComb he could play piano, but only by ear. He now plays marimba, xylophone, drum, saxophone, and can read music for all of it!”
Paula from Germany agrees, and she describes her theater group as being particularly accommodating.
Antonia, also from Germany, has had a similar experience at her local high school. While she was not in a formal choir at home, she jumped at the chance in the U.S. and she never looked back!
Hugo shares, “I found my first and best friends in the marching band. Band makes it easier to meet new people, because we don’t just sit in the classroom and listen to to the teacher, but we have to communicate with our classmates to make everything work.”
“I have had 8 exchange students over the years and they have been a pleasure to have in class!” remembers Mr. Honse.
na has also fallen in “love” with Lovejoy High School and the opportunities it provides, like joining the track team and selecting a full range of unique courses.
Local Coordinator Teal Scott says that bringing the adventure of student exchange to Texas is as rewarding as it is fun.
It’s the very fabric of our host communities – the local businesses and festivals and Friday night football games – that provides the canvas for our students to have a once-in-a-lifetime learning experience!
It’s heartwarming to see how many community groups have an international component, and we love to jump in and serve where we’re able.
Since GLOBAL change begins at the LOCAL level, it’s a joy to partner with organizations to further the goals of connection, community involvement, and grass-roots global change.